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Ex-Hasidic Mother Loses Custody of Children

Special Report

Ex-Hasidic Mother Loses Custody of Children

By Shulem Deen

May 20, 2013 / 103 comments

Judge orders custody switch, citing concerns that the mother's influence might jeopardize the children's religious upbringing.
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Tags: abuse, children, custody, divorce, featured, Kelly Myzner, Monsey, Rockland County Family Court, Satmar, Sherri L. Eisenpress
Posted in Essays, Family, Love & Sex, News & Media, Off the Derech, Religion, Reports, The Frum World, Topics

A Raizel by Any Other Name

Reflections

A Raizel by Any Other Name

By Shulem Deen

April 10, 2013 / 12 comments

“Sean?!” my mother asked. “That’s what you go by now?” Her disdain was obvious, but I needed a moniker that jibed with the ethnically neutral persona I now sought.
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Tags: Annie Hall, cultural heritage, featured, Jackie Mason, Luzer Twersky, Melissa Weiss, names, payess, Rodney Dangerfield, Woody Allen
Posted in Essays, First Person, Off the Derech, Reflections, Reports, Topics

Overheard at the Asifa Protest: Quotes, Moments, & Vignettes

Report

Overheard at the Asifa Protest: Quotes, Moments, & Vignettes

By Shulem Deen

May 21, 2012 / 42 comments

The best and worst reactions from asifa-goers, overheard at the counter-rally outside Citifield.
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Tags: Citifield, featured, Internet, protest, sexual abuse
Posted in News & Media, Reports

“Roundtable Discussion” on “Unorthodox” by Deborah Feldman

In Conversation

“Roundtable Discussion” on “Unorthodox” by Deborah Feldman

By Shulem Deen

February 12, 2012 / 64 comments

A virtual "Roundtable Discussion" about the publication of “Unorthodox” by Deborah Feldman, forthcoming from Simon & Schuster on February 14.
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Tags: books, Deborah Feldman, featured, off the derech
Posted in Arts & Culture, Books, News & Media, Off the Derech, Topics

Sex-Segregated Buses

Opinion

Sex-Segregated Buses

By Shulem Deen

October 24, 2011 / 74 comments

Will the outrage over sex-segregated buses effect change? Not until Hasidic women begin to speak out about it.
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Tags: B110 bus, discrimination, featured, gender issues, sex-segregation, transportation, Williamsburg-Boro Park bus, women
Posted in Essays, News & Media, Opinion, Religion, Topics

No Return

Best of the Blogs

No Return

By Shulem Deen

August 31, 2011 / 4 comments

“Oh, fuck this,” I said. “Let’s go sin then.” He grinned. “Just do it a couple times, it’ll feel natural. Like they say, ‘Transgress, repeat, yada, yada.’”
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Tags: bar, devil, Documentary Hypothesis, pool, Rosh Hashana
Posted in Best of the Blogs, Essays, Fiction, Readings

Contest Update: Winner Announcement

Announcements

Contest Update: Winner Announcement

By Shulem Deen

August 28, 2011 / 1 comment

Announcing our winners for the Winter 2011 Submission Contest.
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Tags: Contests
Posted in Contests, Winter 2011 Contest

2nd Unpious.com Submission Contest: Vote Now!

Announcements

2nd Unpious.com Submission Contest: Vote Now!

By Shulem Deen

August 21, 2011 / Add Comment

Our judges have chosen our five finalists for our Readers’ Choice Award and Runner-Up. Vote now for your favorite essay!
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Tags: Contests
Posted in Contests, Essays, Winter 2011 Contest

An Interview With Michael Jenkins

In Conversation

An Interview With Michael Jenkins

By Shulem Deen

May 26, 2011 / 14 comments

Shulem Deen interviews Michael Jenkins, Footsteps' Director of Programs, about his important work and unique perspectives.
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Tags: conversation, culture, divorce, Footsteps, HIV, In Conversation, job interview, Judaism, Michael Jenkins, Satmar, social, therapist
Posted in Reports

Announcements

Announcing: 2nd Unpious.com Submission Contest

By Shulem Deen

April 13, 2011 / 3 comments

Update – Monday, May 23, 2011: The Unpious.com Submission Contest is now officially closed. We received many excellent entries which have been published or will be published over the next few weeks.

However — we still have just enough chasidish …


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Tags: contest
Posted in Contests, Winter 2011 Contest

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