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Book Review: <i>Yiddish Civilisation</i>

Book Review: Yiddish Civilisation

By Ruchy Fiedler

February 27, 2011 / 7 comments

A fresh look at Jewish history.

Yiddish Civilisation by Paul Kriwaczek is not a new book (it was published in 2005), but I happened to spot it in a small independent bookstore two weeks ago, the first I’d ever seen or heard of it. What a lucky find. The book offers a running history...
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Tags: book reviews, Jewish history, Paul Kriwaczek, Yiddish
Posted in Arts & Culture, Books

Identity Not in Crisis

Identity Not in Crisis

By Ruchy Fiedler

June 16, 2010 / 19 comments

Despite being one of the most conspicuously Jewish Jews--a Chasid, the Jewish identity quandary that so many struggle with is not an issue for me.
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Tags: books, Fiedler on the Roof, Jewish identity, Leslie Fiedler, non-Jews
Posted in Arts & Culture, Books, Essays, Opinion

The Mark of Cain

The Mark of Cain

By Ruchy Fiedler

May 24, 2010 / 38 comments

I.

his hands were speckled in cheerful red polka dots
and Cain thought (just as he reached the end
of his psychonautical journey)
that he’d become a clown, a happy change
from his goddamn law career, the stiff tweeds…


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Tags: Bible, Cain, Metallic Band
Posted in Poetry, Readings

My Daughter’s Place

My Daughter’s Place

By Ruchy Fiedler

May 5, 2010 / 16 comments

I come

to my daughter’s place

invitation in my purse

among my to-do lists, my half-read book,

my nibbled-on snack, my nearly-gone drink.

A Jewish tradition

A superstition

inviting the dead to their loved ones’ weddings.

My daughter is …


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Tags: death, family, graves, rituals, weddings
Posted in Poetry, Readings

Bringing Up a Hasidic Generation

Book Review

Bringing Up a Hasidic Generation

By Ruchy Fiedler

April 23, 2010 / 15 comments

A review of the book "Mitzvah Girls," by Ayala Fader.
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Tags: Ayala Fader, Bobov, Mitzvah Girls
Posted in Arts & Culture, Books, Essays

Cleave: Love and Prayer

Cleave: Love and Prayer

By Ruchy Fiedler

April 20, 2010 / 9 comments

in zebra patterned bodysuits

the dancers slither apart

shimmy in circles,

in odd jumpy steps

across the yawning space

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Tags: bodies, dance, devotion, love, passion
Posted in Poetry, Readings

Pans in Rage

Pans in Rage

By Ruchy Fiedler

April 12, 2010 / 21 comments

Where is the film
of the woman banging pans in rage
because her husband is late and the kids are fighting
or the man smiling because he caught the train
just in time
or the child fretting: he wants …


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Tags: art, film, media
Posted in Poetry, Readings

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    It is okay to be hopeful, I tell myself, to be nervous, to look forward to my husband’s apologies on the way home, but I can’t make it too obvious.

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    When the joy is gone and the benefits are mostly illusory, leaving may no longer be an option. A Dubneresque tale.

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    By Yoel Parnes

    Casting a stripper as his teacher, a former Yeshiva boy is left with more questions than answers.

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    By Samuel Katz

    Every revolution needs a bus ride, and the Hasidic world has now had theirs. But can a revolution ever come to the Hasidic world?


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    Terrified of a god she doesn’t believe in, FreiFem fears the worst.

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    May 23, 2011 / 6 Comments

    FreiFem wonders what blessing one makes on a placenta.

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    In the first few years after I left the frum community, it felt as if my story defined me so totally I didn’t know how to filter it. Now, I try to avoid mentioning it.


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From our friends Sol and Ushi: Lighthearted reflections on life after leaving Hasidic Judaism.

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