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  • June 20, 2013

Opinion

A Rabbi, a Politician, and a Fitness Fanatic

A Rabbi, a Politician, and a Fitness Fanatic

By Pen Tivokeish

March 7, 2011 / 1 comment

A response to Mick Brown's article in the London Telegraph: Yes, it is true that Chasidim form a close knit community, but please, keep it real. Leave nostalgic simplification to Norman Jewison.
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Posted in Essays, News & Media, Opinion

Leaving Charediism

Leaving Charediism

By A.M. Yehuda

February 15, 2011 / 28 comments

When will we read of a comprehensive investigation into the dark side of Charedi Judaism?
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Tags: community, cults, domestic violence, family, fraud, journalism, sexual abuse
Posted in Essays, Opinion

Who Are We?

Who Are We?

By A.M. Yehuda

January 9, 2011 / 50 comments

Who are we, us refugees from the Charedi world? Are we victims, broken people? Or are we wholesome assimilants to secular society?
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Tags: enlightenment, Haskalah, identity, off the derech, post-Orthodoxy, religion, Samuel Katz
Posted in Essays, Off the Derech, Opinion, Religion, Topics

Lord of the Wimps

Lord of the Wimps

By Daniella Leifer

September 1, 2010 / 18 comments

Hasidic Judaism, game theory, and the case for an unpowerful God.
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Tags: Game Theory, God, Hasidism, Judaism, Prisoners' Dilemma, rebellion, religion, Revolution
Posted in Essays, Opinion

The Self-fulfilling Prophecies of the Ex-Hasid

Opinion

The Self-fulfilling Prophecies of the Ex-Hasid

By Samuel Katz

June 18, 2010 / 45 comments

Do ex-Hasidim serve themselves well by establishing a community? Or does that only amplify the narrative of struggle and displacement, inevitably confining them to the fringes?
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Tags: African Americans, Al Sharpton, Andrea Dworkin, Barack Obama, Betty Friedan, Chulent, civil rights, community, displacement, feminism, Footsteps, Gloria Steinem, identity, Jesse Jackson, modernity, off the derech, parties, religion, struggle, women, Yiddish
Posted in Essays, Off the Derech, Opinion, Topics

Identity Not in Crisis

Identity Not in Crisis

By Ruchy Fiedler

June 16, 2010 / 19 comments

Despite being one of the most conspicuously Jewish Jews--a Chasid, the Jewish identity quandary that so many struggle with is not an issue for me.
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Tags: books, Fiedler on the Roof, Jewish identity, Leslie Fiedler, non-Jews
Posted in Arts & Culture, Books, Essays, Opinion

Square One

Square One

By Shulem Deen

May 25, 2010 / 71 comments

We like to do it, talk about it, and hear about who’s doing it with whom, illicit or otherwise. But it isn’t the be all and end all of human experience.
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Tags: sex, sexuality
Posted in Essays, Love & Sex, Opinion

One Giant Leap

One Giant Leap

By Vei Zmeer

May 24, 2010 / 44 comments

Chasidishkeit manages to take everything exciting in life - food, sex, adventure, travel - and mangle it to a point where there's little left of their original allure. And it has a particularly vicious stranglehold on sex.
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Tags: education, sex, sexuality, yeshiva
Posted in Essays, Love & Sex, Opinion

The New Weavers

The New Weavers

By Pen Tivokeish

May 18, 2010 / 5 comments

“How could you let one of your own go, without support and without love?” the cop asks the rabbi. The rabbi replies, “In our lives it is never about the individual. It is about the community.”
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Tags: BBC, Hans Christian Anderson, news & media, Silent Witness, The Emperor's New Clothes
Posted in Essays, Opinion

Anonymous No Longer

Anonymous No Longer

By Shulem Deen

May 16, 2010 / 54 comments

An overview of anonymous and pseudonymous writing in the Chasidic world.
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Tags: anonymity, blogging, Der Blatt, Der Yid, family, Hasidic Rebel, marriage, Sender Deutch, Shulem Deen, Skver, The Village Voice, writing
Posted in Essays, Opinion, Reflections

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    By Rabbi Gershon Winkler

    On the eve of Yom Kippur we ask for forgiveness. If we have not wronged anyone, we slap someone and then we ask for forgiveness.

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    By Pen Tivokeish

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    “Sean?!” my mother asked. “That’s what you go by now?” Her disdain was obvious, but I needed a moniker that jibed with the ethnically neutral persona I now sought.

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