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  • May 18, 2012

Opinion

One Giant Leap

May 24, 2010
By Vei Zmeer
One Giant Leap

Chasidishkeit is not a way of life; it's a way of death. It manages to take everything exciting in life - food, sex, adventure, travel - and maul it, mangle it, distort it to a point where there's little left of their original allure. It has a particularly vicious stranglehold on sex. In high schools...
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Tags: education, sex, sexuality, yeshiva
Posted in Essays, Love & Sex, Opinion | 44 Comments »

The New Weavers

May 18, 2010
By Pen Tivokeish
The New Weavers

Portraying the inner workings of a religious community provides for ample camera material. Judgement was an episode on the BBC TV series Silent Witness back in 2008. A team of pathologists investigate a murder on our streets. Quite banal…


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Tags: BBC, Hans Christian Anderson, news & media, Silent Witness, The Emperor's New Clothes
Posted in Essays, Opinion | 5 Comments »

Anonymous No Longer

May 16, 2010
By Shulem Deen
Anonymous No Longer

In June of 2003, I met with a writer for The Village Voice in a kosher café in Midtown Manhattan. Over a diet coke, with the writer’s recorder on the table between us, I spoke about my blog, my views on religion, and Chasidic society. I’d been hesitant, apprehensive about the inevitable publicity following...
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Tags: anonymity, blogging, Der Blatt, Der Yid, family, Hasidic Rebel, marriage, Sender Deutch, Shulem Deen, Skver, The Village Voice, writing
Posted in Essays, Opinion, Reflections | 54 Comments »

Uncommon Sense

April 10, 2010
By Baal Devarim
Uncommon Sense

How do we know what is true?

This was the question a friend put to me not long ago, after a lengthy discussion on the relative merits of homeopathy versus antibiotics and of germ-theory versus the sin-theory of disease.…


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Tags: epistemology, God, religion, science
Posted in Essays, Opinion, Religion | 39 Comments »

Opinion

In Defense of Chasidic Culture

March 22, 2010
By Baal Devarim
In Defense of Chasidic Culture

What is really so terrible about the Chasidic lifestyle?
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Tags: art, college, education, non-Jews, science, secular culture
Posted in Essays, Opinion, Religion | 58 Comments »

The Mom Delusion

March 21, 2010
By Weeping Madonna
The Mom Delusion

I usually trudge along with Chasidic women to the J train every morning. Like them, I’m close to the JMZ lines. All of us walk mechanically, like robots, toward the loud, screeching subway train.

“Speaking of loud and screechy,” I…


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Tags: children, conforming, family, mommy rage, motherhood, social pressure, women
Posted in Essays, Family, Opinion | 76 Comments »

The Ex Thing

February 8, 2010
By Shtreimel
The Ex Thing

At first all we did was hang out with our own. Fellow Chasidim on the fringe, men only. We didn’t know many women, and those we did know weren’t like us at all. With time we progressed. We met friends,…


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Tags: dating, friendship, non-Jews, off the derech, relationships
Posted in Essays, Love & Sex, Off the Derech, Opinion | 64 Comments »

Belle Meets Belz

February 3, 2010
By Stephanie Cleveland
Belle Meets Belz

As a teenager I read an article in Cosmo about how guys with stubble like the red they can bring to a woman’s cheeks during kissing: It’s a she’s-so-tender-I’m-so-tough type of thing. The first time I saw a Chasid, his beard looked vaguely terrifying. I’ve always hated beards, macho like my Dad’s, like Hulk...
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Tags: discrimination, feminism, love, non-Jews, sex, sexism, sexuality, women
Posted in Contests, Essays, Love & Sex, Off the Derech, Opinion, Winter 2010 Contest | 12 Comments »

The ABC’s of Ignorance

February 1, 2010
By Shulem Deen
The ABC’s of Ignorance

When I was a toddler, even before my mother started curling my little payess around her finger and brushing it with a bit of sugar-water, she taught me the English alphabet (after I had mastered the Alef Beis, of course). By the time I was enrolled in pre-school I knew that c-a-t spells cat....
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Tags: Chasam Sofer, children, education, Haskalah, ignorance, jobs, religion, university, yeshiva
Posted in Essays, Opinion | 78 Comments »

The Revolution of the Species

January 12, 2010
By Shtreimel

the Revolution. Nu? The one where the Goyim believe that all people were created by the monkeys.
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Tags: community, kishke, Revolution
Posted in Essays, Opinion | 8 Comments »

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