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Love & Sex

First Person

A Cup of Coffee

December 21, 2011
By Shaindy Royt
A Cup of Coffee

When a former Bais Yakov girl meets the perfect frum gentleman, she finds herself struggling with personal boundaries and wonders about her choices.
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Tags: coffee, featured, love, off the derech, romance, sex, shidduch
Posted in Essays, First Person, Love & Sex, Off the Derech, Topics | 13 Comments »

Fiction

A Funny Guy

November 29, 2011
By Danny Hulkower
A Funny Guy

Asher got up, walked into his bedroom and returned with a bottle of wine and a mischievous grin. He was offering sex. For the Steins, sex was a tradeoff. This time he wanted to attend one of Dr. Feinberg’s conventions in Monsey.
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Tags: children, family, featured, marriage, Mercedes, sex, transsexual
Posted in Family, Fiction, Love & Sex, Readings, Topics | 15 Comments »

First Person

Teacher of the Year

October 26, 2011
By Riki Stein
Teacher of the Year

A Chumash teacher encounters an old acquaintance among the parents of her young students.
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Tags: bars, chumash, double lives, featured, lesbians, love, school, sex, teachers, women
Posted in Essays, First Person, Love & Sex, Topics | 74 Comments »

Contests

September Shorts Contest – “My First Aveirah”

September 23, 2011
By Unpious.com Admin
September Shorts Contest – “My First Aveirah”

Read and vote for your favorite essays.
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Tags: Contests, davening, featured, halacha, kosher, masturbation, orgasm, prayer, pre-marital sex, sex, shabbos, shul, sin, Yom Kippur
Posted in Contests, Essays, Family, First Person, Love & Sex, Off the Derech, Religion, Short Essay Contests, Topics | 12 Comments »

First Person

And We Are

September 21, 2011
By Joe Johnson
And We Are

After a b'sho and a marriage end in disaster, a young Chasid is determined to do things differently the second time around.
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Tags: Chasidic, featured, Kiryas Joel, marriage, Satmar, shadchan, shidduch, Williamsburg
Posted in Essays, Family, First Person, Love & Sex, Religion | 21 Comments »

First Person

Sex Ed

September 5, 2011
By Yoel Parnes
Sex Ed

Casting a stripper as his teacher, a former Yeshiva boy is left with more questions than answers.
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Tags: dance, education, experiment, feature, featured, strip club, tip
Posted in Essays, First Person, Love & Sex, Topics | 6 Comments »

Memoir

Eyes Shut Tight

August 16, 2011
By Deena Kohn
Eyes Shut Tight

A remembrance of childhood secrets.
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Tags: childhood, featured, feet, house, modesty, molestation, sexuality, siblings, sisters
Posted in Essays, First Person, Love & Sex, Readings, Topics | 15 Comments »

Advice Column

It’s All Kosher (No. 5): Sharing Your Life Story

July 31, 2011
By The Unpious Posek
It’s All Kosher (No. 5): Sharing Your Life Story

A former Chasid wonders how much to reveal about his background.
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Tags: background, dating, friendships, small talk, social
Posted in Essays, Love & Sex, Off the Derech, The Unpious Posek, Topics | 18 Comments »

First Person

Girls Night Out

July 14, 2011
By Riki Stein
Girls Night Out

Night on the town with the girls. And sterling reputations to preserve.
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Tags: chumash, club, dancing, featured, girls, marriage, nightclub
Posted in Contests, Essays, Family, First Person, Love & Sex, Winter 2011 Contest | 41 Comments »

First Person

Black And White Nights

July 11, 2011
By Heshy Wedstein
Black And White Nights

A yeshiva boy's Tel Aviv adventure promises everything he was looking for, but leaves him with more questions than answers.
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Tags: Bon Jovi, featured, First Person, love, Mea Shearim, Mir, Nietzsche, nightclubs, passion, romance, Tel Aviv
Posted in Contests, Essays, First Person, Love & Sex, Religion, Winter 2011 Contest | 45 Comments »

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